Relations by their quintessential sense mean a logical or natural association between two things, bodies or entities. While some relations are mutual give and take, a few are emotionally driven affinities. But irrespective of their nature, they all, at some point or the other, run close to the heart.
The unconditional love of a mother for her child, the protectiveness of a father and the lies of a sibling to save us from our parents are some of the heart touching relations we see. Some get more, some get less but overall we all have some sort of love around us. Love of the auto driver dropping us at school, love of the school maid, love of the child mimicry artists: our relatives, love of the warning watchman, love of the house maid, love of the dad's colleagues and much more is always encapsulating us.
While we live in a world full of love, isn't it quite easy to attached to it. Sometimes, we grow up, or we lose those people, or we are left with a broken relation, doesn't that hurt! The feeling of pain due to the absence of someone from our day to day routine is quite normal. But how far can this go! They say we can control our emotions. But when it comes to the lose of people who are close to us, even the strongest ones feel it, they just might not show. With attachment comes pain. But it is the cycle of life, which makes us stronger and better every time.
Death and other natural causes can't be helped, but we can help what is in our hands. Some relations end because of possessiveness, some end because of lack of trust and some end because of misunderstandings. Ultimately, whatever the reason is the end is not such a positive attribute. When we love a person, most of us try to keep them very close to us. If we want to hold some water in your palm, we make your palm hollow to hold some water. Instead, if we flatten your palm or if we hold tight enough to make it a fist, we spill all the water. Relations run by the same analogy, the balance between the extremes is what makes a relation.
Some relations end in suicides, emotional dramas, physical fights and also mental traumas. When the end has such adverse affects, then whey end? Some argue, the end is what teaches us to start correct. Well, if that is the case then life will be like a never ending loop. At some point or the other, we need to stop the loop, to live. Although, short stories make up minute happenings of our times, its ultimately the long ones that tell our story.
With breaking relations and ending ties, some aspects of us just become numb. But we can forget and let go or we can hope that the rising sun fixes everything. The choice is ours. The ones that matter the most stay the most.
The unconditional love of a mother for her child, the protectiveness of a father and the lies of a sibling to save us from our parents are some of the heart touching relations we see. Some get more, some get less but overall we all have some sort of love around us. Love of the auto driver dropping us at school, love of the school maid, love of the child mimicry artists: our relatives, love of the warning watchman, love of the house maid, love of the dad's colleagues and much more is always encapsulating us.
While we live in a world full of love, isn't it quite easy to attached to it. Sometimes, we grow up, or we lose those people, or we are left with a broken relation, doesn't that hurt! The feeling of pain due to the absence of someone from our day to day routine is quite normal. But how far can this go! They say we can control our emotions. But when it comes to the lose of people who are close to us, even the strongest ones feel it, they just might not show. With attachment comes pain. But it is the cycle of life, which makes us stronger and better every time.
Death and other natural causes can't be helped, but we can help what is in our hands. Some relations end because of possessiveness, some end because of lack of trust and some end because of misunderstandings. Ultimately, whatever the reason is the end is not such a positive attribute. When we love a person, most of us try to keep them very close to us. If we want to hold some water in your palm, we make your palm hollow to hold some water. Instead, if we flatten your palm or if we hold tight enough to make it a fist, we spill all the water. Relations run by the same analogy, the balance between the extremes is what makes a relation.
Some relations end in suicides, emotional dramas, physical fights and also mental traumas. When the end has such adverse affects, then whey end? Some argue, the end is what teaches us to start correct. Well, if that is the case then life will be like a never ending loop. At some point or the other, we need to stop the loop, to live. Although, short stories make up minute happenings of our times, its ultimately the long ones that tell our story.
With breaking relations and ending ties, some aspects of us just become numb. But we can forget and let go or we can hope that the rising sun fixes everything. The choice is ours. The ones that matter the most stay the most.
A relation is like a thread. Once broken, it's hard to tie. Once tied, it always has a knot.
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